HTML - Tab And Accordion

Hi
I am doing a quick website on the cheap.
So I decided to add a Spry Accordion for the menu set up.
The issue I am finding is that when I click any of the menu items a boxed focus selection border appears around the whole menu, which looks bad in the design.
Is there any way to get rid of this issue so when you use the menu this doesn't appear?
Also, at present you have to have one of the menu items open as a selection. Is it possible to manipulate the code so that none of the menu elements are open to start?

Thanks in advance